warning : if u have even a slight attention in learning english.seriously, efffin seriously, do ignore ur intention to read my blog. im in the process of learning to,and will always be,as a matter of fact.haha.
ouh ya,btw, life's good so far,too many things had happened.life changing incidents.yesss, ive been thru a lot.and, i visit MPH like,almost everyday selama school hols tok.. and my sister gave me book as C'mas gift. so, the point is, i want to share something, piece of advise i would say. (was that the correct word/spelling that im using?) haha. about hmmm.. hmmm......... KNOWS WHEN TO BREAK UP. please please don't get me wrong, im not trying to tell u, i am breaking up (yes i did broke up before,a few breaking up i would say) but this time, it's something to share.nothing more. and, yes, i have zero attention of influencing any happy loving couple or CHEATING,'having-an-affair-with' couples to look for reasons to break up.please please understand that 1st.hehe.
I'll put some notes as 'CHECJED or any other,which means -i've done it or i've been thru it/experienced it myself. so gilrs/guys out there,u reaaaallllyy seriousssslyyyy can count on me :)
according to Jim Watkins, there 6 reasons,why U MUST QUIT in a relationship.they are :
1) You can't be yourself with your partner - CHECKED.
2) You feel that the realtionship is smothering you emotionally,socially,or spiritually. - CHECKED
3) You sense there are differences in values,beliefs,and life goals. - CHECKED
4) One of you is moving a long distance away.(This is me saying -)This is definitely2 long distance relationship plus the 3 above or at least one of them.yes,that means,in a long distance rel.,you CANNOT make any mistake at all for you have one major reason already to end the journey of ur rel.-CHECKED & CHECKED.
5)You find yourself outgrowing in the person (this one has no further explanation but the writer's experience himself,so here's mine : at first you'll tend to believe you're right for each other but day by day,as time goes by,u both are heading to 2 different directions,relate this to #3)- OBVIOUSLY CHECKED)
6) You're in an emotionally,physically,or sexually abusive relationship.Jim said and i couldn't agree more : Don't make excuses for your partner-just get out!- and this one too,not to humiliate myself but im happy to help&inspired,CHECKED.
so people,its wonderful how Jim has been so know-it-all about me,my pasts and a lot more when i read his books but it's good to know that, he don't know me at all but there are people around the world,all over the world had been thru things like this.i'm not alone. never was.
what are you waiting for, if u have any signs of those signs (macam pelik jak bunyi) haha. do your checklist and get the hell out of that so called happy relationship ur in. Those reminders were adapted from The Why Files : When I Can Start Dating by Jim Watkins,2010 (its not written in the book,the exact of publishing so i just put on the year of my 1st reading of the book).
if you want to know more,read more Why File Series.it's worth reading, thousannnndddssss times.. :)
